35 weeks and 4 days pregnant. My total weight gain is 21 pounds. As you can see, in this picture he is extremely high up. Do I look bigger than my last belly picture?
Being young and pregnant is not easy. There's a lot of things that are unknown, and it's scary about being a new mom. These are all of the challenges I go through, and my every day life. It includes my relationship with my fiance and my parents. I hope you enjoy.
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Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Friday, August 24, 2012
Handmade baby shower gifts (pictures)
These are pictures of the quilt that was made for us. I'm not sure how well you can see, but the second picture shows the stitches. This was done without a sewing machine. It looks amazing. The stitches are perfect. I can't imagine how long it took to make this. I love it. The design is extremely adorable.
The little booties that were made for us. It's part of a set. They are really adorable. I can't believe people can make stuff like this. It's perfect.
This is mainly to show the sweater because I have a close up of the hat next. The sweater is also handmade. It looks perfect, and I love it. The colors are great, and the whole set matches really well.
This is the hat that goes with the whole set. I really like this hat. It'll be nice and warm for him.
I am extremely thankful for all of these things. They are so adorable and perfect. I can't believe how lucky we are to have people take so much time to make stuff for our baby boy. I would never be able to make something so perfectly. I honestly can't find one thing wrong with any of these things.
I thought I'd share them with you because they are so special to me. I love them, and I can't wait to use them. Thanks for reading, and have a great day.
Our Crib (Pictures)
This is our crib. I really like it, and I can't wait to be able to use it. The blanket is in there just for decoration right now. We won't be needing a blanket in the crib because we have wood heat. It's always really warm in the house when you have wood heat.
Also, I know that the bumper is not safe anymore. My mom wanted me to keep it in, and I was going to keep it in until he could roll over because I talked to an adult friend of ours that her daughter had a son and used it until he could roll over. She works in a hospital. After that, I asked my nurse at my doctor's appointment about it, and she said that it is okay up until they're 2 1/2 months old. Then, they can roll themselves over without actually meaning to just by kicking their feet. I shortened this, and decided I will be taking it out when he's two months old, or before depending on how he is. I don't just go on statistics because I know every baby is different. I won't go past two months with it in, but I may take it out before two months if I feel that he is strong for his age.
The picture that is on the wall will be taken down this weekend or next when we finish moving the room around. I don't trust a picture being over the crib, and I definitely won't be keeping it there. We have little pillow decorations to go on the wall that matches the set.
So that's our crib. I hope you like it. If you have an recommendations or anything please let me know. I'm open to suggestions. This is my first baby, and I know that I don't know everything in regards to safety and all of that. I want everything to be perfect for Jason. Thanks for reading and have a great day.
34 weeks pregnant baby belly
34 weeks pregnant baby belly! Do I look any bigger from my last picture? I feel so much bigger. Jason is still really high up, and he hasn't dropped at all. This is a good thing because we want him to be completely healthy when he's born, and not have to spend any time in the NICU. I personally wouldn't mind going past my due date on Oct. 2nd, except for the fact that I can't wait to see him. My total weight gain is twenty pounds, and still going up. We're getting close to that 25-35 weight gain goal, but who's counting anymore. At this point, I don't think we can stop the weight gain. I'm just accepting it, and being proud that my baby is healthy and growing. Thanks for reading, and have a great day!
33/34 Week Pregnancy Update
Welcome to thirty-four weeks pregnant. It’s been an amazing journey so far, and we’re
getting so much closer to the end of the line.
Only six more weeks!
Am I excited to be done?
Well, in some ways I guess I could say I am. What with all the achiness and not being able
to do everything I want to. Also, I can’t
wait to see our little boy, and be able to hold him in our arms; that I’m very
excited for.
But I also enjoy being pregnant. I love watching my belly grow, and feeling
him kick. Watching him deform my belly
is now daily entertainment, and Mason feeling him kick while we cuddle is just
another added bonus.
Anyways, these past two weeks have been pretty amazing. I had one of my baby showers, and we got a
lot of adorable baby clothes. I feel
especially lucky because we got some cute homemade things. I’ll be sure to post pictures of these
things. The first is a handmade quilt. It is completely handmade without a sewing
machine, and the stitches are perfect.
You would not be able to tell that she didn’t use a sewing machine. Next, we got a cute handmade outfit. She made little booties, a sweater, and a
perfect hat. I did not expect anything
handmade, so this was a great surprise.
After that, Mason and I got started moving the bedroom
around so we can fit the baby stuff in here.
It turns out that it didn’t exactly come out right though, so this
weekend we will be finishing it. Besides
that, we got the crib up! The sheet is
on and everything is ready. I am so
thankful to Mason for putting it together.
It was pretty entertaining trying to figure it out. You see, it was the crib my mom used for my
little sister and I. Therefore, there
were no directions. We ended up asking
my mom for some help, but for the most part we figured it out on our own.
Well, that’s it for the random parts of these two weeks; now
for my symptoms.
Everything has pretty much been the same besides feeling achier
in the ribs and in my back. I’ve still been
really out of breath. I haven’t found a
way to help with this. No matter which way
I lay, I still feel out of breath. I’m
not out of breath all the time though, just when he’s especially high.
I’ve also been having some heartburn. It hasn’t been that bad though. Going along with this, I sometimes feel like
my food is still stuck in my chest. It doesn’t
seem to want to settle. I think I’ve
been having a little bit of an increase in my appetite too. I still can’t eat too much at once because of
not having a lot of room, but I’ve been having more cravings. One of which is chocolate milk, so this pay we
will be getting chocolate syrup.
My morning sickness has been so much better. I haven’t gotten sick in over three
weeks. I still get nauseated, but not
nearly as bad as it used to be. This is
a great change for me. I didn’t like
being sick all the time, but I had gotten pretty used to it. I would never complain about morning sickness
because it’s a part of pregnancy. I’ve
had the best pregnancy, and being sick hasn’t ruined it at all.
Getting around has been another big symptom now. It’s hard for me to bend down and pick up
things. I have to be reclined when I sit
instead of sitting straight up. Sitting
straight up makes my ribs ache quite a bit.
My balance is pretty horrible right now.
I have to hold onto the rail going up the steps just to be safe. I also still get leg cramps in my right leg
most of the time while I’m walking. This
causes me to have to walk really slowly because it is very uncomfortable, but
it goes away quickly.
Finally, I still do not have any energy. I get tired after cleaning houses, and I go to
bed early almost every night. I haven’t
had any trouble sleeping though which is good.
The only problem I have is getting out of bed in the morning. It takes effort now to lift myself up out of
bed.
Anyways, that’s it for my symptoms. Let me know what your symptoms are in a
comment down below.
Last but not least is my doctor’s appointment. As you know I had a doctor’s appointment on
Monday. This one was a little bit more
eventful than the last one.
First of all, Mason got to go this time because he got
rained out. We were both really happy
about this.
So Jason is perfectly healthy, and his heartbeat was
normal. I gained four pounds this time,
making my total weight gain twenty pounds.
I wasn’t very surprised about this weight gain because I had been
feeling really huge. All of the weight
that I gain goes to my belly (isn’t that a sign that you’re having a boy?). I haven’t gained weight anywhere else, which I’m
happy about, but I’m not too happy yet. I’m
thinking that I’m going to end up gaining everywhere when I’m just about to
have him. I’ve heard that happens to
some people.
As for the exciting part of the doctor’s appointment: my
doctor was measuring my belly like usual, and I asked her how much she thought
he weighed. My mom had asked me to ask
her because she was curious, and Mason and I were too. She then told me that he was measuring big,
and that she wants to order an ultrasound to check his growth. She also said that her guess would be six
pounds, but that she’s not very good at guessing weights, and that we’ll know
for sure at the ultrasound.
I personally think he’ll be between 4 ½ and 5 pounds. My mom thinks 5 ½, and Mason thinks 4 ½. We’ve kind of made a guessing game out of
this on what his weight will be. So take
a guess in the comments below, and I’ll let you know on Monday what he
weighed.
Anyways it turns out that next time I went it would have
been the last time I waited two weeks for my appointment. After my appointment at 36 weeks I would have
started going every week. Instead I’ll
be having my regular appointment after my ultrasound which means I’ll be going
to every week appointments early. This
happened when I went to two week appointments.
I was just about to switch to two week appointments, and then she wanted
to have my gestational diabetes check early.
Mason and I both find it weird that that’s how it worked out.
Now we’re expecting a bigger baby, but my OB said that the
ultrasound might show that he’s right on track.
Mason thinks Jason might have been sticking out his butt when she
measured me, but we’ll find out on Monday.
Also, Mason will get to go to this ultrasound, which is
amazing. We’re both extremely excited to
be able to see him again before he’s born.
My mom will also be going to the ultrasound. It’s supposed to be about a half hour long,
and we have a great technician that always gives us a good look. It’s funny because I was thinking that I
wanted Mason to get to go to another appointment before Jason got here because
he hasn’t heard his heartbeat in a long time.
Now he’ll get to go to another one, and get to see Jason again.
So I think that’s about it.
I’ll be posting my belly picture and a few other pictures today. I’m going to give you an update on Monday or
Tuesday on how my appointment went. Now
every week I’ll give you an update on my appointments if only just to let you
know that he’s healthy. They may be
short, but I’ll add in any random things that I can. I’m still deciding whether I’ll go to weekly
pregnancy updates or not, so we’ll see.
Just keep a look out. Thanks for
reading, and have a great day. As for
those that are pregnant and reading this, I hope everything is going great, and
that your baby is healthy.
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
8 Months Pregnant Belly
My baby belly at eight months pregnant. I just got my new camera, and I'm extremely excited. The quality isn't the greatest because of the lighting, but it works. I've gotten so much bigger since my last belly shot at seven months. I knew he had a growth spurt but it's so hard to tell until you see the pictures side by side. My total weight gain is sixteen pounds. Thanks for reading, and have a great day!
31/32 Week Pregnancy Update
We are eight months pregnant! I can’t believe how close we are
getting. Have we started the countdown
yet? Mason and I have been counting down
the weeks with a note of fear and excitement in our voices. We are so excited to be parents and raise
this child, but the idea of it is still scary.
Money is what scares us, but we have faith that everything will work
out. We have a plan, so we’re not going
into this with nothing. That’s what
makes us feel more comfortable about being a family.
So to start, surprisingly I have noticed a slowdown in Jason’s
movements. Of course he still moves a
lot, but it isn’t like it used to be. I
don’t like this at all seeing as I count on his movements to tell me if he’s
okay. I believe this is where everything
gets the most stressful. I worry about
going early, and I am terrified that something could happen in these last few
weeks. I hate voicing this worry, but it’s
true. Do other new mom’s feel that
way? I can’t be the only one.
Something else that has surprised me is that his kicks
rarely hurt. There has been a couple
that hurt a little bit, but nothing serious at all. I always thought that once they get stronger
it starts to hurt. But the only ones
that have hurt me are when he really stretches my skin, and he’s also kicked my
back twice. I wonder if it’s further
along that the kicks start to be painful.
It’s hard going into this without a clue of what to really expect. That’s why I make this blog. Even though I’m learning, at least someone
can still learn from my pregnancy.
Anyways, my symptoms.
My morning sickness has gotten a lot better. I still get nauseated sometimes, but I haven’t
actually gotten sick in a couple weeks. I
forgot to mention that at my last doctor’s appointment we figured out that it
was my prenatal that was making me sick.
So they switched me to Flintstone Complete vitamins. Since then I have been sick a lot less. I can’t believe it took us so long to realize
it was the vitamins that were making me sick, but at least I know now.
Next, I don’t have any energy. I can sleep in until ten in the morning, and
still be yawning at two in the afternoon, and be ready for bed by nine or ten
at night. I feel like a bum because of
how much I sleep, but I guess pregnancy is an excuse. At least I still get stuff done during the
day.
My newest symptom is a weird feeling in my legs. It’s always my right leg. When I stand or walk, every once in a while I’ll
get a weird feeling that goes down my whole leg. It starts at my hip and goes all the way down
to my feet. It feels almost like your
leg is falling asleep, but different because it’s not the tingling or the
squeezing feeling that you get when your leg falls asleep.
I talked to my doctor about this at my doctor’s appointment
and she said it was perfectly normal.
She said if it caused me pain in my butt/hip then it was probably my
sciatic nerve, but if it’s my whole leg than it’s probably him putting pressure
on the blood vessels to my legs. Either
way it’s not too bothersome or painful.
It only happens once in a while and it usually goes away within five
minutes. So it’s not too bad of a
symptom for me.
Besides that all of my symptoms have been pretty much the
same. I still have the achiness in my
ribs. It’s getting a lot harder to pick
things up off the floor. I get out of
breath a lot, but it’s not all the time.
I think I’ve been a little bit more moody lately. I haven’t really had too bad of moods throughout
my pregnancy, but lately I’ve been feeling so jumpy with my emotions. One minute I’m laughing hysterically, and the
next I’m as serious as can be.
Thankfully I don’t break into random crying fits though.
I still haven’t had too much swelling. I think there have been times where I have
gotten swollen, but not bad. I could
only tell because of that feeling you get trying to bend your fingers or toes
when they’re swollen. It hasn’t been bad at all, and it’s only
happened a couple times so my engagement ring still sits comfortably on my ring
finger.
I’m not sure if this is a symptom or not, but I have been
nesting really badly. I have to wait until
the baby shower to get everything ready in Mason and I’s bedroom, and it’s
killing me. The baby shower should be
coming up soon, but I can’t seem to wait.
I can’t stop thinking about how we’re going to change the room around to
fit the crib and everything.
The reason we’re waiting for after the baby shower is
because we want to know everything we have to fit in our room first. Therefore, we can make room for it all at
once instead of reorganizing the room more than once. I can’t wait though. I want to get the base of the car seat in the
truck, but I can’t because it’s a baby shower present. I want to dust everything and make it really
clean but I can’t because it would be pointless to dust twice because I would
end up dusting again before we put the baby things in here. I know that once I get everything ready
though I won’t be able to wait for him to get here. Everything will be ready; we’ll just have to
wait for him. That will drive me insane.
So that’s pretty much it for my symptoms. I’m extremely thankful that my symptoms haven’t
been bad at all. I feel like the
luckiest pregnant girl in the world. I have
an outstanding fiancé that’s always there for me, and I have so much support
from my family. This pregnancy has been
flying by, and there haven’t been any complications. We are very blessed.
Finally, as you know I had an appointment on Monday. Everything went great. His heartbeat was normal, and his growth was
right on track. I swear he had a growth
spurt because I feel a lot bigger now.
My belly button is still in, but it’s puffing out around the edges of
it. And it’s getting pretty obvious no
matter what I wear that I’m pregnant.
Basically, my appointment was the same as usual. I managed to make my OB laugh though. She asked how my heartburn was, and I told
her that it was good and I haven’t had to take my prescription for it. I also said that the only thing that kills me
is barbeque chips because they’re so good.
She said, “Middleswarth?”
Middleswarth is a brand of potato chips that only the state of
Pennsylvania has. They are extremely
good. So I said yeah, and she started
laughing. Then she said that she had to
go buy some now because of talking about them.
I thought this was funny.
I wonder how many pregnant women mention what they’re craving, and then
the OB has to go buy some because she hasn’t had them in a while. We pregnant girls are bad influences.
Lastly, you wouldn’t guess how much I’ve gained. Five pounds!
Five pounds in two weeks. That
makes my total weight gain sixteen pounds.
I’m pretty happy about this, but at the same time I’m worried. I keep thinking, “What if I gain five pounds
at my next appointment too?” I’ll be
getting close to my 25-35 pound mark if that happens. But what can you do? You have to gain weight when you’re pregnant,
and you might as well be proud of taking care of your baby. At least I’m not underweight. I’m glad that he’s healthy and growing
perfectly.
That’s it for these two weeks. It hasn’t been much of an eventful time, but
who needs it to be exciting? We just
want Jason to be healthy, and stay in my belly as long as possible. Thanks for reading, and have a great day. And if you’re pregnant and reading this, I
hope your pregnancy is going just as well as mine. Let me know in a comment below. Thanks again.
Saturday, August 4, 2012
29/30 Weeks Pregnancy Update
We are inching closer and closer to my due date. I can’t believe how fast time is flying. This pregnancy has gone by so quickly. I wonder if it’s because we didn’t find out
until I was 9 weeks pregnant, so we just started the pregnancy off weird. Anyways, we only have 10 or so weeks to
go. That is crazy!
Unfortunately these past two weeks have been pretty
uneventful. I say unfortunately because
it gives me less to update you on, and makes this update not as exciting.
Jason is kicking all the time and freaking Mason out. He is also always on my ribs which gives me a
horrible achy feeling, and makes it harder for me to breathe. But I still love him more than ever.
I find myself really wanting to settle down now. Before I was kind of still in the stage of
squeezing in whatever we could before he got here, but now I’m really excited
to be a mom. I know it won’t be easy,
but I’m excited for the responsibilities.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m worried and scared too. Babies aren’t cheap, and Mason doesn’t have
the best job even though it’s stable.
Yet, I know people have made it by with less. I try to be thankful for what I have because
I do have a lot. I have parents that
help me as much as they can, and Mason’s dad is too. I’ll be having three, yes three, baby
showers.
Let me explain.
Mason’s dad’s family doesn’t get along with mine because of their
drinking habit. Therefore, Mason’s dad
is throwing me one with the girls from their family. Plus, I think you already know that my mom is
throwing me a baby shower with my family.
And finally, my cousin is throwing me a baby shower also. Mason’s dad’s baby shower will only be about
five people, and my cousin’s will only be about four. My cousin is throwing a baby shower because
of the fact that she doesn’t know my side of our family, and we wanted it to be
a fun small get together where it could be personal.
Either way I am extremely excited for all of them, and I
feel very blessed to be supported by so many people. God has a plan, and I know that this was part
of it. It has only turned our life
around for the better. Of course it’s
brought struggles along with, but what is life without its battles?
So, to get back on topic.
I haven’t had many symptoms. I’ve
been pretty achy like usual especially on my ribs. I’ve also been having a lot of trouble
breathing. I can’t seem to get comfy in
bed, but I still sleep fine once I fall asleep.
It just seems that every time I lay down I can’t catch my breath even
though I don’t lay on my back. My appetite
jumps around. Sometimes I feel like I
could eat and eat and eat, and other times I don’t want to eat at all. I’m not sure if this is normal or not. Please let me know.
I’ve also still been having back pain. It is all over my back. I know my upper and middle back is in pain
because I haven’t been able to crack it in months, and my lower is obviously
from the weight change in the front.
Surprisingly I still haven’t had much swelling or leg cramps. I still wear my engagement ring all the time,
and I don’t have any problem with the shoes that I wear besides I like my
support a lot more now.
Well, I believe that’s pretty much it for my symptoms. Let me know what your symptoms are in a
comment below.
Now for my doctor’s appointment. You’ll be happy to know that Jason is
perfectly healthy. His heart rate was
145 which she said was perfectly normal.
She also measured my belly and told me that he was right on track. I was very happy to hear this as I’ve been
afraid that I haven’t been gaining enough weight. As you know, at my last doctor’s appointment
I lost three pounds. They weren’t
worried, but I was. Isn’t that how it
always is?
Well, before this appointment I had been eating quite a bit,
and Mason and I went to a restaurant too.
I was sure that I had gained like five pounds, but I was still
worried. So the first thing they do is
check your weight and ask you to pee in a cup, right? So I always get weighed before I go to the
bathroom. My nurse asked me if I wanted
to go to the bathroom first so that I could shed a couple ounces while in there
because a lot of women like to do that.
Of course I said no because I wanted any extra weight I could get.
So it turns out I didn’t even gain a full pound! Granted I was only a couple ounces off, but
still. I asked my nurse if my weight was
okay, and she said yes it was okay because I was still gaining and making up
the difference of what I had lost. Later
I asked my doctor to double check and she said that it was good too. She told me that they like you to gain
between 10 and 25 pounds. In the
beginning I was told 25 to 35 pounds, so that was confusing. I think she might have said that because that’s
like the least amount they want you to gain.
Anyways, my total weight gain now is eleven pounds, and it’s
all baby. I know everything’s fine as
long as he keeps growing at a normal weight, so I’m not too worried now. I’m actually pretty proud that I haven’t
gained more than I was supposed to.
That’s it for this update.
I hope you enjoyed, and that you could relate. I would love it if you left me a comment down
below. Thanks for reading, and have a
great day!
Update (Allergies to Cats)
I know, I know. I owe you a huge apology. I haven't posted in weeks! Normally I am a little late with my pregnancy updates, and this was the case at first. But then we had to go to Mason's dad's to housesit while he was on vacation. Unfortunately I didn't have internet access there which I didn't know beforehand. I thought I would have internet there and be able to update you guys.
Anyways, excuses never work, so I apologize for not posting for that period of time. I have my 29/30 week pregnancy update mostly typed, so that will be posted today. I will also be posting my 31/32 week pregnancy update after my doctor's appointment on Monday.
You will also be happy to know that I'll be getting a camera this week or next. At the latest it will be Friday. That means more belly pictures, and who knows what else. I love taking pictures so you might get to see some random photography on here.
Oh, and just a random little sidenote. I was completely allergic to Mason's dad's cat who is a fluffball with a lot of hair. I knew that I was a little allergic to certain cats before this because if I would pet a cat and then rub my eyes, they would get really itchy and if I continued to itch or rub them they would get cherry red. But it only happens with certain cats, but I had it happen before with his cat. I thought I would be fine though if I didn't pet her.
Little did I know that I didn't even have to pet her. Cat hair was covering the house, and therefore quickly covering me. I was congested whilst having a runny nose and sneezing all the time. My eyes were irritated, and they watered a lot. There were times where I sat there just holding my hands over my closed eyes to stop myself from rubbing them.
So I am extremely happy to be home. I feel better already from the fresh air. I know now that I will never own a cat. I've always been more favorable towards dogs, but I still liked cats. Now I still like cats but they obviously make me pretty miserable.
Again, I'm sorry for leaving you hanging for so long. Like I said, I will post my 29/30 week pregnancy update today and my 31/32 week pregnancy update after my doctor's appointment Monday. I should also have a baby belly picture this week or next once I get my camera. Which by the way I am extremely excited about.
Please forgive me for not posting. Stuff like that is a rare occasion so you won't have to expect a delay like that again. If I know that I will be away, I will be more prepared. Thanks for reading, and have a great day!
Anyways, excuses never work, so I apologize for not posting for that period of time. I have my 29/30 week pregnancy update mostly typed, so that will be posted today. I will also be posting my 31/32 week pregnancy update after my doctor's appointment on Monday.
You will also be happy to know that I'll be getting a camera this week or next. At the latest it will be Friday. That means more belly pictures, and who knows what else. I love taking pictures so you might get to see some random photography on here.
Oh, and just a random little sidenote. I was completely allergic to Mason's dad's cat who is a fluffball with a lot of hair. I knew that I was a little allergic to certain cats before this because if I would pet a cat and then rub my eyes, they would get really itchy and if I continued to itch or rub them they would get cherry red. But it only happens with certain cats, but I had it happen before with his cat. I thought I would be fine though if I didn't pet her.
Little did I know that I didn't even have to pet her. Cat hair was covering the house, and therefore quickly covering me. I was congested whilst having a runny nose and sneezing all the time. My eyes were irritated, and they watered a lot. There were times where I sat there just holding my hands over my closed eyes to stop myself from rubbing them.
So I am extremely happy to be home. I feel better already from the fresh air. I know now that I will never own a cat. I've always been more favorable towards dogs, but I still liked cats. Now I still like cats but they obviously make me pretty miserable.
Again, I'm sorry for leaving you hanging for so long. Like I said, I will post my 29/30 week pregnancy update today and my 31/32 week pregnancy update after my doctor's appointment Monday. I should also have a baby belly picture this week or next once I get my camera. Which by the way I am extremely excited about.
Please forgive me for not posting. Stuff like that is a rare occasion so you won't have to expect a delay like that again. If I know that I will be away, I will be more prepared. Thanks for reading, and have a great day!
Thursday, July 19, 2012
How we plan on taking care of our baby.
As I’m telling you this, I’d like you to keep in mind that
this is what we’re doing. What we do isn’t
necessarily what you should do. Our life
circumstances are different, and our views may be different also. Either way, I hope you can learn from
this.
First things first:
where will we be living when Jason is born?
Well, right now we have our application in at housing. If you don’t know, housing is for people with
lower incomes. You are put on a waiting
list until an apartment becomes available.
We could be waiting for six months before we get in. For us this works out though. We will not have the truck paid off for about
two or three more months. Therefore, we
will not be able to afford an apartment until it is paid off. This gives us time to save up our money.
As we are waiting for a place to become available, we will
be staying with my parents. My mom has
offered a room in the house for the nursery, and as long as we continue to pay
rent, we are welcome here. For the first
few months, Jason will be in our room sleeping in a bassinet. Then, once he has outgrown the bassinet, we
will move him to the nursery in a crib.
Who will be taking
care of him?
Jason is due in the beginning of October. I only say this because around Thanksgiving
Mason will be laid off for the winter.
He will still have plowing to do if it snows, but during winter he will
be collecting unemployment.
In the first and possibly second month, I will be taking
care of Jason during the day, but Mason will help in the afternoons. I will also be taking care of him at night
because Mason will have to get up early for work. On the weekends he will help at night unless
he has to work Saturday. In the fall
they have to work Saturday’s because they get busy again. Therefore, he will probably only help me
Saturday nights.
To give you an idea, Mason leaves for work at 7:20am, and
gets home any time after 3pm. Some days
he will work as late as 7pm. During the
fall months he will have very long hours and probably won’t get off until
between 5 and 7pm.
Once Mason is laid off for the winter, we will both be
taking care of him during the day and at night.
On a side note: Mason will be looking for a job that will give him his
CDL so he can start his trucking career.
We already have a few places in mind, but we have to wait until then to
start applying due to unemployment and everything.
Babysitters
We will not really be in need of babysitters because I will
be staying home with Jason. But on the
off chance that we do need one, we would go to our family friends or Mason’s
dad first. The reason we will not go to
my parents first is because of their drinking habit. Neither of us are comfortable with Jason
being around alcohol, and we don’t want to risk it.
Of course, we are going to give them a chance to prove that
they can handle it, but once they ruin it it’s gone. We want Jason to be able to spend time with
his grandparents, but this is a touchy matter for us. They have done a lot for us, but we don’t
trust them. That is a story all in its
own, but that’s where we stand with my parents babysitting.
As for daycare or anything along those lines, we won’t be
enrolling him in that. For one, we don’t
need to, and for two, it is expensive.
Lastly, I have problems trusting people I don’t know with my baby. You may not agree, but this is just how we
plan on raising him. Again, what works
for us may not work for you.
I believe that’s it.
If you have any other questions that I forgot, feel free to ask. I will answer all of them in a separate post
so that I can go into detail. Thanks for
reading, and have a great day!
Monday, July 16, 2012
27/28 Week Pregnancy Update
Wow! I am finally
twenty-eight weeks pregnant. It’s hard
to believe that we only have twelve weeks left or sooner to see our little
boy. I hope it isn’t too soon because I
want him to be perfectly healthy and not have to spend any time in the
NICU.
So we have reached the third trimester, and I am extremely
excited. I’m getting bigger every day,
and I can feel him kick all the time. He
is getting extremely strong which is great.
This past week has been really hectic. I was feeling great in my 27th
week, but as soon as I hit my 28 week mark on Tuesday, everything went
downhill. I got extremely bad heartburn
to the point where I couldn’t lay down in bed.
I also felt very sick to my stomach.
I was getting sick practically every day, sometimes three or four times
a day.
I was extremely miserable.
I couldn’t seem to get any sleep.
I was waking up every hour or so thinking I was going to get sick, and
feeling horrible from heartburn. I would
take tums but it didn’t help.
Thankfully by Saturday I felt a little bit better. Mason and I were able to go to his dad’s, but
it was very hot out which made it horrible because we were outside all day
working on the truck. Mason actually got
heat exhaustion so I was up with him until three in the morning. So I was running on hardly any sleep, and we
went to his dad’s again on Sunday to finish the truck.
I felt good until Monday then. When I woke up Monday I felt very sick. I couldn’t keep anything down until noon, and
my doctor’s appointment was at 1:30pm. Therefore
at the doctor’s appointment I was dehydrated, but they weren’t worried because
I had just started being able to eat and drink again.
Otherwise my doctor’s appointment went great. Jason’s heartbeat was in the high 140’s which
she said was normal. I also asked if he
was breech or not, and she told me that he wasn’t because his heartbeat was low
in my belly meaning he was head down. I
was very happy to hear this seeing as I was a breech baby with my mom.
Also, my doctor has been regularly checking my growth, and
she told me that I was 29 in. I don’t
know what I was before, but she didn’t say anything about whether it was good
or bad, so I’m guessing it’s good.
I lost 3 pounds since my last appointment, but they didn’t
say anything about it because they knew that I had been really sick. That makes my total weight gain 11 pounds so
far, and I’m trying to gain more now to make up the difference. It’s actually kind of weird having to try and
gain weight instead of worrying about not gaining too much weight. My glucose test came back normal which didn’t
really surprise me. Ever since I’ve
started eating better and squeezing in more snacks I haven’t had any weird
spells of lightheadedness. So that’s
pretty much it for my doctor’s appointment.
I’m extremely happy that everything is going so well.
Now for the rest of my symptoms. I’ve gotten over the sickness, but I’ve been
feeling pretty achy lately. I’ve taken
advantage of Mason’s massaging skills again because of back pain. He is absolutely amazing at giving massages
and relaxing me. Again, take advantage
of any chance you get for a massage!
It feels like Jason is always on my ribs which is not very
comfortable. Sometimes it can be
painful, but I love it either way because it shows me that he’s okay.
I have also had a couple times where I felt like my
heartbeat was racing. From what I’ve
read, this is normal, but please let me know if this has also happened to
you. It is a very uncomfortable and
scary feeling for me when it happens.
Well, that’s about it for my 27/28 week update! I’m sorry that it was so late. This week has been pretty hectic. I’m going to post an update today on how
Mason and I’s relationship is going, and just how everyday life is. Please check that out, and don’t forget to
comment! Thanks for reading, and have a
great day!
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